The Prince Of Ties
How To Buy The Perfect Tie
by Shawn Rahman and Peter Carbonaro
125 x 125 Style
These are a few of our favorite things: Seven-fold silk tie, $125, from Countess Mara. Woven-silk chevron tie by Joseph Abboud, $75. Solid silver herringbone tie by Oxxford Clothiers, $125. Silk moire iridescent-stripe tie by Joseph Abboud, $75. All ties courtesy of Ashford.

"A well-tied tie is the first serious step in life."
- Oscar Wilde

Buying a tie is one of the most important wardrobe decisions a man can make. Unless you like the tie, it'll feel like a burden around your neck, but the right tie will make you feel like a prince. It's no coincidence, then, that two-thirds of all ties bought are bought by women, no doubt seeking to make the men in their life less froglike. Heed our advice -- wear the tie she bought you. She probably has better taste than you do, and you'll be assured of wearing something she actually approves of.

But, personal tastes notwithstanding, there are a few things you can do to ensure that the tie you're being bought is worth the money. Here are some pointers to make sure your tie is highly crafted and not just highly priced.

Better made ties are "cut on the bias", or across the fabric, which helps in creating better knots and allows them to drape against your shirt properly. So how do you test the cut of the tie?

Simple. Hold the tie up by its smaller end, and see if it hangs straight. If it does, you have a winner. If it twists, you do not.

Next, feel the fabric of the tie. Presuming that it's silk (and most ties you buy should be), the finer and softer the silk, the better the tie. If it's not soft to the touch, it has probably been dyed too often -- a sure sign of lower quality.

The lining to the tie is equally as important as the fabric, as it holds the shape of the tie. The best quality ties have a wool lining, and the finer the tie, the higher the wool content in the lining. But beware - this doesn't mean that the finest ties are thick ones, as a heavier lining does not mean better quality. The bulk in a tie should be because of the silk, and not the lining.

Next, take a look at where the two sides of tie come together on the back to form the inverted 'V' shape. A good tie will have a small stitch joining the back flaps - this is called the 'bar tack', and it helps maintain the shape of the tie.

Lastly, take a look at the small content label on the tie - if it is a handmade tie, it will almost definitely say so. These are generally more desirable than those that are not, but not always.

A recently published book illustrates well over a hundred different ways to tie a tie. You need to know only three - the half Windsor, the full Windsor, and the four-in-hand. The Windsor knot looks good only on spread collar shirts, just as the great Duke of Windsor originally wore it. When tying the knot, no matter which one, you should aim for the smallest and most precise knots you can manage, Just make sure there is a dimple in the center of the tie just below the knot.

A tie should always be properly untied, and this does not mean slipping it off your neck without untying the knot. Short of dipping your tie in paint, this is one of the most surefire ways to ruin a tie. Hang the tie up immediately after use, and the wrinkles won't be there tomorrow. And, if you follow the advice above, you and your ties will have hundreds of tomorrows to share


Peter Carbonaro recently bought a Dolce & Gabbana retro graphic print tie that he keeps under lock and key in a humidity-controlled case. Ten years ago, Shawn Rahman's former girlfriend spilled some merlot on his prized Gaultier tie. He dumped her on the spot and kept muttering about demons for an entire year.